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Club
Sinful Delights
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06/22/2010 09:17 PM
Couples Only HOTEL SUITE
Parties”
Up Coming Events:
July 17
July 31
Aug 14
Sept 4
Oct 2
Oct 16
Nov 6
Nov 20
Dec 4
Dec 18
Call
631-374-9707 for details & Reservations
Party starts at 9 ends after 4
$40 per couple
Conformation are only done live, wives must be present to confirm
631-374-9707
Rules:
Zero Pressure
Respect others at all times
Do not bring any Alcohol Bottles in the building
Do not bring any Drugs in the Building
Do not come drunk/wasted
Dress to impress
The Members of the LISG
and Club Sinful Delights invite you to join the club.
Ages: Late 20's to late
50's
Average Age 37
Club Sinful Delights
Doors open 9:00
631-374-9707
Come
join us for a fascinating night of interesting conversations and even more
interesting late night play
Before attending a swinger party a couple must learn some etiquette and basic rules first. This is a small guide for new swinger couples.
Since you're the newbie's you need to keep this in mind: swinging is for open-minded couples, it wont be viewed favorably if one partner leaves early and the other stays, the majority of time, if one goes, both go remember you and your mate are trying to become a swinger couple not two single swingers.
Arrive early or alt least on time. Its not fashionable to turn up late to parties, as the night may have already got underway, and may it be people who have already began feel awkward walking in late, it may also be harder for others to fit in. If you're arriving late give the party host a ring and check with them, they may update him/her on how the night is going so he/she may walk straight into it. Be polite The swinging lifestyle is full of insecurities and uncertainties. You should behave as a real swinger couple. As the saying goes , treat people in the way you want to be treated, sensitively, thoughtfully, understandingly.
Be friendly with every one, even when not wanting to take it further with them, there should be other things in common, or they may start introducing people. Many swingers don't swap or have intercourse with other couples but after going to two or more parties
Phone the party host and ask them if there’s any thing they're needing , always arrive with something for the hosts. Pack what ever may be needed, toothbrush, comb, perfume/aftershave, Condoms, robe etc. Neat casual clothing and good grooming Always take a robe or negligee, it may be more comfortable as the evening progresses.
In a swinger party you should interact in many different ways with other swinger couples. The main thing that may turn the potential partners off may be bad breath or body odor. Have a shower before leaving for the party. Only do what is really fun. The whole idea is to enjoy one self, that’s why the lifestyle and its parties exist.
The most basic and important in swinger party etiquette is the right to say no. A simple and polite No, thanks, is all that is required. There's no need to explain, as this may cause problems and hurt. Do not be afraid to say no, every one has the right, and if someone does end up doing things he/she doesn't want to it may cause more ill-felling and embarrassment.
If one fancies swinging with someone let them know in a nice, inviting way, if they say no, it is up to them. Do not ask them why, as this could be embarrassing and hurtful. If they decide not to swing with you, do not carry on and try to sweet talk them and flirt with them, as this may do a lot more harm than good.
Most people like a few drinks at a party, drinking socially is fine, it may provide a good social platform to get to know other swingers, it may also help anyone relax. Overindulging is not a good thing though, as it may hinder for physical and mental performance, and is a turn off for many people. If anyone need to drink heavily to participate in the party this isn't the lifestyle for his/her.
It is up to every swinger to protect his/her self and his/her partner. The use of condoms should not offend any one, it is not saying one is dirty, it is simple a means to protect all swingers involved. Anyone not willing to use a condom is selfish and irresponsible. How ever, saying that, if all participating people are happy not to, it may be down to discretion.
This is an obvious one, don't take any one to a swinger party who doesn't know what there going to, it is very embarrassment for every one, and probably may cause problems. Do not take a ticket to a swinger’s party A ticket is someone who goes with another person to the party just to get a third one in, but has no intention swinging, of course no one HAS to swing, but if one person swings, it is normally expected that the other one is willing to swing. The group room is for group swinging As the name suggests, the group room is for group swinging, if any wants privacy do not go to the group room, if one take a partner with him/her into the swinging room they may expect others to ask to join them , obviously still there's the right to refuse.
If in a bedroom or the group room, do not disturb the swinging of others with prolonged talk. This may be very mood-destroying and very annoying! If a party is BYO, only drink what you bring BYO, also known as BYOB (bring your own booze), only drink what you bring, unless under permission from others.
Probably the most important one, approach every thing with an open mind and positive attitude, act out your fantasies, and enjoy your self.
Always call or write to say thanks, for one thing it may get anyone invited again, and it may let the hosts know that they provided a good party. If you follow this suggestion you'll always be well received in a swinger party.
Many adult couples enjoy fantasizing about having sex with other people, more and more of these people are deciding to make these fantasies become a reality, which is great news for people already in the lifestyle, as they always enjoy having new swingers to come and join them. There are of course pitfalls and there are several things to consider before coming and joining the fun :
Meet swingers in your area.
Don't push or pull one another into the lifestyle.
Talk about each one's fantasies , if both people want to make them a reality, then start making contact with some swinger couples or people.
If either one in the couple is not ready, STOP. Dragging a reluctant partner to meet another couple ( even for soft swinging), or taking them to a party is not going to make them change their minds. There is a very high risk that it will lead to the end of the relationship .
Decide what the boundaries are. Don't go alone to a swingers meeting or party without making sure to have agreed on what each one is happy doing, and what area's are no go zones. For example, may be both agreed that on the first swingers meeting they will be happy for both of them to get involved in everything except full intercourse, as long as both know what the boundaries are, and they have told the people they are meeting what they are , there will be no problems as long as everyone sticks to them.
Just arriving home the same night, talk about the experience, be it good or bad, make sure both were OK with it, and want to move forward, or otherwise , to stop. If the feeling in that moment is happiness and want to move forward, decide what changes, if any, should be done to the rules under which the game is being played .
Never step outside the boundaries without agreement, don't try to modify the boundaries on the evening, always start the evening knowing exactly what is and is not allowed. There have been seen people getting divorced because they did not keep to their agreements.
Never fall in love! Swinger lifestyle is about having fun with other adult people. Most of these people are in happy relationships and are looking for sex, not love. Declaring love for someone is going to complicate the issues, and put strains on everyone's relationships, it could even destroy the other persons marriage.
Looking for love? A suggestion from an adult swinger couple ,you better check one of the many lonely hearts sites.
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